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I I'm Mon!ca. Learn it, love it, breathe it. I'm complex. I don't like to talk about my issues. I'm learning more about myself everyday. And even more about the people around me. I'm a BBW - I'm working on changing that ... no, not for you, for myself. When it comes to me dating, I prefer black men. Sorry guys, it's nothing personal - so please don't get pissy and IM me to vent about your dislike of this. I'm not a people pleaser. Beginnings come from endings. I'm pretty mean sometimes. I hate this fad called "sagging." It's ugly. Stop it. I don't like my feet. I don't like my feet being touched. I'm optimistic. When I say no, I mean no. I'm a scaredy-cat. I need people to push me towards what I want. I hate putting band-aids on my fingers. I think they have no circulation and will fall off. Yes, my friends are better than yours. No, I'm not going to tell you why. I easily forgive, but hardly forget. I hold grudges. I'm nice on the inside.
my family
Me, Will, my daughter, and my parents :] they help me out with her while i'm in school
my birthday
April 20
my astrological sign
Taurus
my gender
Female
where I live
Charleston, WV
my favorite boards
100 Pounds or More To Go
February 2006 Flutterbugs
Multi-Cultural Families
Plus-Size Friends TTC
Signature Showcase
my website title
Crystal Xtremity
my website URL
http://www.myspace.com/crystalxtremity
my favorite quote
Out of ashes comes new power ... Phoenix, help me in this trying hour ..
best advice I've ever received
Don't sweat the small iish
topics to ask me for advice on
child abuse, religious abuse ... religion, paganism, children, infants, breastfeeding, interracial relationships .... :)
achievement I'm most proud of
giving birth to the most beautiful love of my life!!!!