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Dr. Jack Kevorkian out of prision

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What do you ladies think about him? Do you remember the hype surrounding him? I was young, but remember it clearly. I remember mocking him and thinking he was a quack, but now, having lost my brother to suicide, and seeing how very unhappy he was, I have changed my views. My brother had retnal-cornea detachment in both eyes, and was told at 15 he would be blind by 21. When he died at 20, he still had eyesight, but had to go through painful treatments where they would numb him up, but stick a syringe in his eye and drain fluid that was forcing the detachment about 2-3 times a year. He'd be awake during the whole thing. That wasn't why he killed himself, but overall, he was in poor health. Over weight, high blood pressure, he was on blood pressure meds by 18, which added to his lack of self esteem. I think if someone wants to die, it's their life. Sure, the pain the family is subjected to is awful, but my friends and family have come to terms with my brother's suicide. It would be selfish of us to want him here for our own reasons, when he was in so much agony everyday. At least he's not suffering anymore, and I'm sure the families of his "victims" feel the same. They came to HIM wanting to die... but I guess murder is murder...

It's weird, he'll be living right down the road from my town... about 10 minutes away. I wonder if I'll run into him?

COLDWATER, Mich. - Jack Kevorkian, the retired pathologist dubbed "Dr. Death" for claims that he participated in at least 130 assisted suicides, left prison after eight years Friday still believing people have the right to die.


A smiling Kevorkian said it was "one of the high points of life" as he walked out with his attorney and "60 Minutes" correspondent Mike Wallace.

Inmates inside the prison had been milling about all morning for a glimpse of the 79-year-old, while reporters and television vans greeted him on the outside with cameras and questions.

Kevorkian attorney Mayer Morganroth said his client planned a news conference next week.

Throughout the 1990s, Kevorkian challenged authorities to make his actions legal — or try to stop him. He burned state orders against him and showed up at court in costume.

"You think I'm going to obey the law? You're crazy," he said in 1998 shortly before he was accused — and then convicted — of murder after injecting lethal drugs into Thomas Youk, 52, an Oakland County man suffering from Lou Gehrig's disease.

That conviction earned Kevorkian a 10- to 25-year sentence for second degree murder, but he earned time off his sentence for good behavior.

He is expected to now move to Bloomfield Hills, just outside Detroit, where he will live with friends and resume the artistic and musical hobbies he missed in prison. His lawyer and friends have said he plans to live on a small pension and Social Security while doing some writing and make some speeches.

Kevorkian has promised never to help in another assisted suicide. But Ruth Holmes, who has worked as his legal assistant and handled his correspondence while he was in prison, said his views on the subject haven't changed.

"This should be a matter that is handled as a fundamental human right that is between the patient, the doctor, his family and his God," Holmes said of Kevorkian's beliefs.

In a recent interview, Kevorkian also made it clear that his support for letting people decide when they want to die hasn't wavered.

"It's got to be legalized. That's the point," he told WJBK-TV in Detroit. "I'll work to have it legalized. But I won't break any laws doing it."

The Michigan Catholic Conference says it will oppose any effort to renew the push for assisted suicide in Michigan.

The state has had a law banning assisted suicide since 1998, the same year voters rejected a ballot proposal that would have made physician-assisted suicide legal for terminally ill patients.

Right to Life of Michigan, which also opposes any effort to allow assisted suicide, said it distrusts Kevorkian's promise to not help anyone else die. "He made similar false promises prior to a string of deaths, the last of which led to his imprisonment," the group said in a statement this week.

Oregon is the only state in the nation in which a terminally ill patient with six months or less to live can legally ask a doctor to prescribe a lethal amount of medication.

Kevorkian will be on parole for two years, and one of the conditions he must meet is that he can't help anyone else die. He is also prohibited from providing care for anyone who is older than 62 or is disabled. He could go back to prison if he violates his parole.

He will report regularly to a parole officer and won't be able to leave the state without permission. He can speak about assisted suicide, but can't show people how to make a machine like one he invented to give lethal drugs to those who wanted to die, Department of Corrections spokesman Russ Marlan said.

Kevorkian did not have many possessions to take out of prison with him, in part because many of them have disappeared.

"Strange as this may seem, last month ... someone stole his manuscript he'd been writing and his belongings," Morganroth said, adding that he expects someone took Kevorkian's clothes and medicine to sell on eBay.

Holmes said Kevorkian was looking forward to eating some of the things he couldn't freely get in prison, including a sandwich of plain sliced turkey on thin lavosh bread.

"He's looking forward to some grapes and apricots," she said. "He loves pistachios."

Working with Kevorkian, Holmes already has sent to a book publisher about 250 of the thousands of letters he got while in prison.

"He wasn't able to answer all of them, but it was very heartwarming to see the number of people who wrote to him from all over the world," she said.

Geoffrey Fieger, Kevorkian's former attorney, said that once Kevorkian is off probation, he should continue assisting people who want to commit suicide.

"He's on a short leash for the next two years," Fieger said Friday. "After that, it will be another story. After two years, he no longer is going to be under their thumb."

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  6/1/2007 11:31 am

I honestly see things several different ways on this issue. I wouldn't have agreed at all until Tony got sick. Watching him suffer and his family see him waste away is torture. Because of that I can see WHY someone would choose to stop the pain, the suffering, the memories that family will have of you becoming weaker and weaker, the humiliation of being unable to do the simpliest things for yourself, the loss of your personality or intellegence to a disease.

I doubt it's something Tony would consider or that his family would even want me thinking these thoughts, but his situation has made me wonder what I would want...

I'm afraid of what could happen if it becomes legal...I'm afraid it could be abused or allow a way for other people to decide you're better off dead (euthanasia), but I can definately see why people would want to chose a peaceful medicated death over a lenghty process of being torn apart by a disease with no hope for recovery.
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I know that if I were ever in so much pain that I wanted to die, I'd hope that there would be someone out there willing to help me.

Why is it that we will put down our pets (dogs and cats) when they are suffering/dying/in pain, but when it comes to family members we don't give them the same respect.

If my mom or dad was dying of cancer and in a lot of pain and was wanting to die, I'd try to honor their wishes. It would be really hard to let go, but would I really want to be selfish and watch them suffer?

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Natalie, I'm sorry your brother suffered so much. My brother was in perfect physical health, though. Obviously, he had mental health issues. I'm still not to the point yet where I've accepted what he did - to me, it was the most selfish and cruel thing he could've done to us. He knew he needed help, and chose not to get it, instead taking the easy way out. For that I don't know if I'll ever forgive him.

That all being said, the only suicide that I *can* condone is when a person is suffering and is not going to get better. If someone is dying, and in pain, with no hope, I absoulutely think they should get to decide on their own terms. Take my Grandma, for instance. She suffered for 15 yrs from emphysema before she died in 2003. Had she committed suicide, I would've been *devestated* by her death nonetheless, but at least I would've *understood* the logic behind it, kwim?

Anyhow - I'm glad you've found some sort've peace about it all and hope that one day, I will too.

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Angie,
If you don't mind me asking, how long ago did it happen? My brother died 2 years ago last April. I never would have come to those realizations on my own. It was through the help of a childhood friend that we both grew up with. She was his age, they're both 14 months older than me, and went to school with him their whole lives. She was the one that helped me come to terms with it. I'm not saying it's any easier, and I still ask the stupid "why" question... but I know why... I miss him everyday, and honestly, if I can go a few hours without him popping into my head, I'm doing good. If I can go a few weeks without crying over it, it's been a good few weeks, but I know "why"... and it helps to know he's not here, miserable. Not to say there weren't good times. He had a good life, great friends, and from the outside, appeared to be happy, but when I stop to think of everything he had to deal with it's like "oh... that's right"... it's easy for US to forget day to day, but not the person bearing the load.
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