Dearest Judy,
I haven't even the words to adequately express how deeply saddened I am by this terrible loss. I am so very sorry. Just know that I'm here -- which I know isn't much help because I cannot be there. But if you need a sounding board, to vent, or a supportive cyber-hug -- I am always, and will always be there for you.
My heartfelt condolences,
Tori