Fabulous that you are thinking ahead as this is a complex and important topic. The key is for you have a good sense of the risk and benefits of all the choices before you. I would discuss with both as you will need both during the pregnancy and afterwards.
Among the question I would reflect on is how serious is my illness without meds? Do I have the supports/ capacity to respond quickly of my illness gets active on low or no meds? Do I have a good understanding of the risk of the meds that work best for me and for the baby? Remember all docs want you to have a smooth pregnancy and healthy baby. You may want to to check out Dr. Lee Cohen at Mass General. He has done a great deal of work on this exact question.
Edited 9/29/2009 11:57 am ET by dr.duckworth
