re:
Pre-Puberty Breast Cancer Screening?
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32215.4 in response to 32215.3
I think the toughest thing about knowing is that if she tested +, what would you then do? If you are not going to do anything with the information (ie have a bilateral mastectomy or oophorectomy) then there is no reason to know. She will already be closely watched because she has a family history and will be more educated (hopefully) on breast cancer and how to monitor herself. I think that if I knew for sure that my daughter carried the gene, I would just be sitting around waiting for the worst to happen. If I never had her tested, then I could tell myself that she was negative and wouldn't stress out about it as much. KWIM?
This is a really tough thing to deal with. I have an acquaintance who has a strong family history and she tested + for the gene. She has a young daughter and she has said that she will wait until she is mature enough to handle it and she will tell her. She is leaving it up to her just as her mother left it up to her to make her own decision.