Am I a fool?

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Am I a fool?

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12/29/2005 10:07 am

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I have been dating this guy about 6 months. well 2 months ago I found out he gave me herpes, but we've been dealing with it. I didn't leave him, cause I felt like it was worth it to stick around. Well now we have a problem. He lives a couple hours away and has been coming down every weekend to see me. Well he came down for christmas on the friday and came straight to my house.(me and his parents live in the same town). I have been gaining a lil weight lately and he asked me if I was pregnant. My tubes are tied so I told him no. Well, when he came in on friday, his demeanor had changed. He said my face was a lil fat, and asked was I pregnant again, I said no.( keep in mind I only weigh 104 from 95 pounds) He said " you better not be pregnant, cause you would've tricked me". Like I would use pregnancy as a trap. So I got offended, and said "f" you. As fas as I was concerned I didn't have to get pregnant to trap him, he had already trapped us when he gave us the herpes. Before we even slept together, he knew about my tubes, and it ain't stopped him from sleeping with me the last 6 months. well, that night he wanted to cuddle and stuff and i didn't. So he stayed on his side of the bed. The next morning he got up and said he was going to check on his folks, and i said okay. He came around to my side of the bed for a kiss and i just threw my jaw at him. He didn't kiss it and he left. I haven't heard from him since. He didn't call on Christmas and hasn't since then. I texted him once nad told him I missed him. I also called him once and he hasn't returned my call. SO I need some advice. I love him so much but I don't wanna be holding on to someone who may have decided to go elsewhere. Other than what I just mentioned we haven't really had any problems.I want it to work, but if not i need some advice on what to do. My feelings are soo hurt though. Please help me!

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12/29/2005 2:38 pm

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Well I am really not too sure what to say to you about this. I guess he may be giving you the cold shoulder in response to you giving HIM the cold shoulder. Did you explain to him about your feelings being hurt after he said that stuff about trapping him with the pregnancy? Or did you just say "F" you and go on? I guess it may be possible that his feelings are hurt now and is just reacting the same way you reacted to him. I am really not sure. Good luck.

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