Hysterectomy & Alternatives

You don't have to answer this on here for obvious reasons, but do you have any other female problems such as bladder or uterine prolapse?  The reason I am asking is because I, too, am 48 and am scheduled for a total abdominal hysterectomy, bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy (TAH-BSO - I call it gutting me like a fish, because there won't be anything left when they're done), and a bladder lift.  I have 3rd degree (the worst you can have) bladder prolapse and 2nd degree uterine prolapse.  I kind of went through the same thing with my periods that you have been through except I had 2 D&C's and with the second one had uterine ablation therapy.  For most women, they said they stop bleeding for 6 months afterwards and then start again.  However, I bled for 6 months and then stopped and haven't had a period in 6 years I think.  Unfortunately, I still have all the symptoms as if I am ovulating and going to have a period (PMS), I just don't have the bleeding (which is wonderful).

My FSH has fluctuated so they figure I am heading toward menopause, and because of the bladder prolapse my doctor and urologist are all for me having surgery.  I don't know if it helps that I work in the medical field and know these doctors or not, but my GYN doctor said she wouldn't do it until I was late 40's when I asked several years ago (at the time of the 2nd D&C).  Guess I'm close enough now.  I guess if it were me, I'd go for a second opinion (maybe with a female GYN doctor who might be more sympathetic to your issues).  It sounds like your doctor was either having a bad day or plain and simple doesn't think there's enough reason to do it.  Having worked in the medical field for 29 years, I believe 2nd opinions are always a good idea if you are questioning your doctor's opinion.  You have a family history that should matter IMHO.

Good luck and let us know what you decide.

Donna

Hey Donna - Sorry I was MIA - lots of "stuff".  I don't have the other things you were talking about.  At least I don't think so.  I told my dr. that I was having some bladder leak (not just when i laugh!!) He felt it was totally unrelated and a discussion for in the future. 

I did get a 2nd opinion.  I asked the only gal I "know" in the practice(the surgical scheduler) for advice - get a 2nd in or out of the practice.   She thought I'd have better luck of getting a more aggressive opinion with an actual surgeon (fancy that) of the practice.  So I saw him.  In a roundabout way, he let me know that it just has to be justified to the insurance company.  But he actually examined me and felt a new fiberiod the size "of a $2 navel orange".  Not earth shattering or cause for alarm - but it was another reason for the surgery.  And so I'm scheduled at the end of October.  I can see the relief on my husband's face. 

Thanks for checking up on me.  I have lots of reading to do here on this board!!