Hi greeneyedlover,
Let me suggest that you copy/paste your message on our Insomnia and Sleep Problems board at:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-bhinsomnia
Sleep Center:
http://emotional.health.ivillage.com/sleep/
National Sleep Foundation:
http://www.sleepfoundation.org/site/c.huIXKjM0IxF/b.2417141/k.2E30/The_National_Sleep_Foundation.htm
If he hasn't already, you might suggest that he get some help from his doctor. They might want to do a sleep study on him or at least some type of evaluation to determine what is preventing him from sleeping.