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A Clean House When Depressed/Anxious?

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This will work for anxiety too;) jan

Six Ways to Clean House When You're Depressed

A clean house can help a depressed mind. Learn coping skills that can help you stay on top of your housework.

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

One of the key signs of depression is when you suspend taking care of day-to-day chores, like cleaning your house. Depression leaves you feeling so down and tired that you just let things go. Unfortunately, a messy house can add to those feelings of depression — creating a destructive cycle that feeds on itself. Once the mess gets too large and chaotic, people with depression can't imagine how to begin tackling the household duties. They feel hopeless and helpless against the clutter and dirt, which reinforces depression.

How to Keep It Clean When You're Depressed

A recent study found that performing at least 20 minutes of daily physical activity, including domestic housework, benefited mental health and lowered risks of psychological problems. Don’t let depression force you to live in a messy house. Here are some ways to cope:

  • Clean as you go. Sometimes keeping your house clean is as simple as not cluttering it up in the first place. Wash your dishes right after using them, rather than letting them sit in the sink, and store your tools once you're finished with a project. By putting things away right after you've used them, you can prevent clutter from occurring in the first place — or from getting even worse.

    You can get further ahead by taking care of chores that will prevent dirt and grime from forming. For example, brushing your dog or cat once a week cuts down on all the tumbleweeds of fur rolling through your house, which you'll eventually have to vacuum.

  • Don't procrastinate. When you have depression, it's easy to shrug chores off and say you'll do them later — fight that urge and live in the present. If you take care of things now, it will cut down on the time and effort needed to clean up after the fact. Wiping up a spill right after it occurs is a lot easier than scrubbing a hardened, crusty stain once it's dried. Depression might make you feel sad or sluggish, but taking care of these little tasks can offer you a sense of accomplishment and pride.
  • Break it up. Devise a schedule so you're only cleaning one or two rooms every day vs. having to clean an entire house, which can seem like an enormous and daunting task.
  • Store your cleaning supplies wisely. Not being able to find the necessary cleaning products gives you a chance to throw up your hands and say, "Why bother?" Don't become frustrated — make sure you have what you need close at hand. Keep bathroom cleaners in the bathroom and kitchen cleaners in the kitchen. If you've got hardwood floors on the first floor and carpeting on the second floor, store your vacuum cleaner upstairs for easy access.
  • Pay attention to busy areas. If you're feeling particularly tired or depressed, focus on cleaning the rooms where your family spends most of its time. Vacuum well-traveled hallways or clean up clutter in the kitchen and living room. Spend your energy where it will do the most good.
  • Rope your family in. Why should you have all the fun? Give family members specific housekeeping tasks to complete. Be sure to let them know that by helping with the housework, they are helping you cope with depression.

Keep in mind that things may not be bad as you think. Eighty percent of people with depression improve with the proper treatment, often within a few weeks. You don’t have to resign yourself to a messy house while you deal with depression — by getting your home in order, you will also rid yourself of a source of stress.

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These are good tips Jan!  I find when I fall into depression/anxiety that I tend to go for the cluttery places first.  I work on closets or the laundry room or clean & organize the storage shed. 

ETA: The following messageboards also have some good ideas for getting started with cleaning and orgnizing.  :)
Cleaning 101, Flybabies and Real Organizing for Real People.



Edited 10/22/2009 4:38 pm ET by cmamyd
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Thx for reminding us about the great iVillage boards, Amy. Flybabies saved my life. Literally! I don't get over there like I should, but I still use their methods. Lots & Lots of good ideas can be found there! jan

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I have to say I have been in the middle of this slump for a few years.  I just can't understand how I could keep my last house clean, but this one overwhelms me.  Probably the depression and anxiety got obviously worse over time (and a situation that has totally overwhelmed me that hasn't found the end yet, has been going on for years....)

I keep up with the sink/dishwasher thing, and the laundry thing, but I can't keep up with the other things.  I feel horrible, as I just look around and just decide it's too much and I have to go back up to my room and just spend time in there like a hermit.

I don't like leaving my room.

I don't know how to fix this problem.  I do center my attention on the dishes and the laundry, and feeding the kids, taking care of their needs..... but omg my house needs so much more.  It doesn't help that it's a big house and my kids are special needs.

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I have been in your shoes. I resisted asking for help. Later, when things had pretty much fallen apart, I was shocked @ the number of ppl who were willing to help. Friends, family & even members of my church. It isn't easy, but please ask for help. We often think that others are too busy to care, but much like gift-giving, ppl DO want to feel needed & loved. Just as much as you do. I am positive there is someone you know that would be willing to lend a hand & get you started. It's always the start that seems to foul us up. Once the momentum begins, you will have an easier time keeping up. You will feel so much better about yourself & your life. I care about you. GL & GBU! (((hugs))) jan

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