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HELP with eating everything in sight.
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4499.2 in response to 4499.1
I'm wondering if anybody has trouble with controlling relationships.... I want sour cream and chive dip and b-b-q potato chips... hey.... and burgers I fry myself with plenty of salt...
Actually wondering If I have do PMDD or not... gyn's say I do (and I'm definitely in perimnenopause)... but not lots of different therapists, gps, or pshyc.... they don't say "you don't have pmdd", they just say that I have anxiety and depression (and some say I should go to AA--- you know they won't label you, like you label yourself when they say that).
Don't really care what I have... just want to get better.
Right now, my problem seems to be that I'm not assertive enough... instead I'm aggressive when I feel boxed in.... but before I get boxed in... I should call those controlling folks on that controlling-dominating behavior that always throws me.... but, instead I get shocked and don't know what to say...
Do other PMDD ladies wonder about *what to do* or doubt themselves enough (like me) to stay in controlling relationships?
lots of questions about is this.... just me? or is it PMDD related???