discussion title: Never Again
I'm so happy I heard from my boyfriend yesterday. It was such a relief. I am debating about weather I should call the prison and see where he can parole too. Before we talked about him coming and living with me and a part of me knows he wants to but another part of me is not sure and doesn't blame him. I probably wold not want to live her either if I knew all the problems with the house and the fact that there are already 3 people living in the house and my grandma doesn't like him at all and won't even give him a chance. She doesn't even know him but doesn't like him. I know in my heart I really want him to be here with me. I am not a very patient person and feel like I've been waiting forever. But, then apart of me doesn't want to push the issue and just let the chips fall where they will.
message #: 9787.2 in response to 9787.1
You sound quite torn between your options and the option of not making a decision (letting the chips fall where they may) is quite inviting. You hope that things would naturally work out the way that you want them to without making them happen yourself - then who could blame you. Of course you are a bit worried that things wouldn't turn out favourably, but making a decision is tough. Taking this responsibility on your shoulders is tough. If you really want things to turn out exactly how you want you have to make them happen. If you are happy with either outcome, then good for you. What is most important to you? Your relationship with bf, family, roommates? Where are you putting your happiness on your priority list. And finally, are there any other options you haven't considered? It helps sometimes to think about totally wacky options to get the mind going and then settle on feasible options that are "outside the box".
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