Welcome to the board. I'm sorry I wasn't able to read your post before you edited it.
My name is Brenda and I am the cl here.
I see Allie has already welcomed you. As she said you do not ever have to give any more information then you are comfortable with. I know how hard it is to tell the stories and telling strangers is even harder but I hope you wil consider sticking around and letting us give you some support on your healing journey.
HUGS