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I refuse to fail my girlfriend!

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  Oct-27 12:08 pm

When my girlfriend and I first got together, I was at the tail end of rehabbing form shoulder surgery. She asked me to move in with her, and I was reluctant based on the uncertainty of employment. My old position was obsolete, and the new position I was to receive, was made impossible for me to achieve. I have submitted almost 250 resume's to date, and put every dime of my unemployment into the house. Is there something more I can do, to give my GF a greater sense of security, and sincerity that I am making every effort to become gainfully employed in the most expeditious manner possible. I have done some remodeling jobs on the side, remembering to put every nickel in the house. I have earned  two engineering certifications while having this time, and should have a third within another month.  She is by far the best thing to ever happen to me, and I believe in doing my best to keep doubt as a non- factor. If theres more I can do I am all ears. Thank you for your time and advice, if i forget to say it later........

 

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I refuse to fail my girlfriend!

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I think your actions speaker louder than anything you can say to her. If you truly are doing everything you can she will notice!!! Just relax and enjoy her and in time we will be gainfully employed again.
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Thank You that is my hope!
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