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oral and pubic hair?

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  4/14/2007 11:20 pm

i give my bf oral all the time and i've been hesitante about getting it from him bc i feel weird about my pubic hair. should i shave it or is it normal to just leave it? my best friend has been telling me i need to get oral done bc its amazing lol and i believe it.
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oral and pubic hair?

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  4/14/2007 11:35 pm

Good grief. You are thinking about this too hard. Pubic hair has been around for a long time and not too long ago everyone had great big bushy pubic hair and men were giving those women oral sex without any problems. Sure, everywhere you look it seems like women are shaving their pubic hair off but it's a trend and you'd be surprised at the number of real life women that still don't really do anything with their pubic hair - and guys are still happy to give women oral sex with or without pubic hair. In fact, a lot of guys LIKE pubic hair on their women. Silly or not, many people think that women with shaved pubic hair look like little girls and they don't like the shaved look.

I say that you should go ahead and let him give you oral sex. If he has a preference about pubic hair you could ask him, or he'll probably let you know at some point. If it makes you feel better how about a compromise at the moment? Get a little battery trimmer and have a trim. Trim it shorter and get the stray hairs if you like. I mean, you can shave it all off if you want - but just do what you want to do and don't let it affect your sex life.

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oral and pubic hair?

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  4/15/2007 9:54 am

As Westie said, you are way over thinking this.  Pubic hair has been around since the beginning of time and so has oral sex.  Do what you want to do with your pubic hair, if you want it natural then let it natural, it you want it trimmed or shaved then do it.  If your b/f has a preference, I'm sure he'll tell you his preference and then you can decide what you want.

Dh doesn't care if I'm all natural, trimmed or shaved, he loves giving oral no matter how I am so I do what I want to do.

Whatever you decide to do, don't allow pubic hair to affect your sex life which you are doing.  Sex is not about whether or not you have pubic hair, that shouldn't even be on your mind when you're being intimate with your guy.   

 

~Tish


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oral and pubic hair?

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  4/17/2007 12:09 pm

A guy going down on you that knows what he is doing can be amazing..Just trim the hair around your lips and vulva area and leave the rest alone..Let him have complete access to your clit and lie back and enjoy the orgasm love.....
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  4/17/2007 9:16 pm

oral is amazing, i say shave it, i shave mine!
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