discussion title:
extra discharge and oral
so here's the deal... i'm getting married in august, and it will be the first time for... well, anything and everything below the belt. for the most part, i'm really stinkin excited about it all, because me and the boy have been waiting for so long, that we'll pretty much rip each others clothes off, haha. but the thing i'm a bit nervous about is if we do oral. not even just on that night, but ever. because i tend to be very heavy with discharge. so i guess my question is about the nature of that discharge. i was even at the gyno today, but it completely slipped my mind to ask about it. the discharge doesn't smell bad, but it can be kind of goopy at times. it is even sometimes so heavy that i feel it coming out in my underwear, and i know it's happening because it kind of feels like i'm peeing or bleeding, one of the two, cuz it's so much coming out. i know they say each woman is different with how much they discharge, and that typically it's about 1 tsp per day, but i feel like i have so much!!! is it normal to actually FEEL it coming out? it feels so awkward, and then i have to get to a bathroom to wipe it off the underwear before it gets all gross and hard and crusty. so those are some questions about the discharge itself, but then that translates into oral. what if i'm discharging a lot right before he goes down? i don't want to be self conscious about it, because that's even worse cuz guys can pick up on that and then they think they're not doing a good job. i just don't want him to be grossed out by it!!! what should i do? is there something i can do to make it cut back on how much comes out?!?!?! please help!! thanks!!!!
discussion title:
extra discharge and oral
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6917.2 in response to 6917.1
Discharge is normal. Some are heavier, some are lighter than others. I myself sometimes have to go wipe down there because I feel wet, thats a normal thing. Since its gradual throughout the day, I wound't worry about it interferring with your sex life. Its not like it comes out all at once! Your gonna be juicy down there anyway when hes down doing his thing. Dont worry about it. I think most girls feel a lil scared at first, about what it would smell like, taste like, etc. Just let him do it! lol
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