This is how you have oral sex
Believe it or not there is an art form to this. You can't just go down there start licking everything and hope for the best- Here's a carefully crafted list of steps that if done right, will put you at the top of her "best ever" list.
First off, just in case you haven't talked about it yet, it's perfectly fine to let your girl know (in a sweet way) that you would prefer she be well-groomed downstairs. Oral sex with a clean shaven p***y is always MUCH more fun for both of you, and she will be a lot wetter and smell and taste better without all the excess fur.
Next, Warm her up thoroughly before heading downstairs. Start kiss her neck, whisper some naughty things in her ear, and rub her gently over her underwear. When sheÕs begging you for more, start kissing her chest, then her stomach, then the inside of her legs and begin to make gentle contact with her labia with the very tip of your tongue.
Now's a good time to mention that I hate term Òeating her outÓ. Too many guys think this means that the rougher and nastier they get, the better. FYI, a girl has to be extremely turned on for that kind of forceful pressure to feel good, so please keep that in mind.
Ok, I'm off my soapbox, start using your tongue to make soft strokes along her inner labia and slowly start to move up around her clit. Take a free hand and put it on her stomach about where it meets her pubic bone and softly push upward to give you the best possible access to her clit.
Develop a rhythm, lick and suck VERY gently, increasing your pace and the amount of pressure as she becomes more turned on. Use small, circular or up-and-down motions, or try spelling the ABCs with your tongue. Anything that gives you some variety. This is the real tricky part, you have to pay attention and listen and feel for what really works for her. Once you find something that works, run with it.
At this point, she should be bucking her hips against your face. If you want to drive her totally nuts, try holding her down so she the sensations just don't stop. Slip a finger inside her and use just a little force. Some of my very best orgasms occur while having my clit stimulated orally and a finger or two giving my g-spot a rub down, but look out, because if your girl happens to be a squirter, this technique is almost sure to cause her to ejaculate in your face, which is a lot of fun, but a little shocking if youÕre not ready for it.
Well, there you go. The best lesson in oral sex I can give you. I hope you learned something and let me know it goes, as always send all questions and comments to me.
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