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Why do men last longer...

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when they've consumed alcohol..???? I just love when my fiance last longer..dont get me wrong I still love sex with him when he's sober. I must say its like 10xs longer and we end up doing it like 3 or times that one night :D.. why do they tend to last longer with alcohol...?? Thanks
 
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its the same reason that if someone gets in a car accident when there drunk they dont go into shoc k from what a sober person might die from. the mind just doesnt recieve the message at the same speed. alcohol does that to a person
 
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I have been only with 2 men, Dh has been the only one for the past 28 years I do not remember the other. Once he is inside I really do not think he can go without ejaculating more than 5-10 minutes. Now if we have not had any sex for a while then he will not even last that long, second time around he will go longer and less amout of ejaculte. Many of times after picking him up at the airport he has just about ejaculated in my hand in the parking garage, from being "so full and painful". He is overseas now on business trip since last Sept. I visited him 2 times in Nov and in Feb we both were like wild animials, could not wait to get to his apartment I knew he would not last long especially the very 1st time after 2-3 months of build up.
Kate
 
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  5/4/2007 12:15 pm

Not all men have a problem lasting longer, they can learn to last as long as they want to or as long as their partner wants them to. 

For your alcohol question, alcohol is a depressant and it alters your brain which in turn dulls all the senses and nerve endings.  

Dh has never had a problem with lasting as long as he/I want him to last, he learned how to control it.  When he has more than 3 beers in him, he isn't drunk and he'll get an erection but there is no way he's going to get off at all no matter what we do because alcohol is a depressant. 

 

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