I totally agree with you. I have been on every diet with Oprah. I too am 203 pounds today. Meaning that I've gained back almost every pound I lost. This time I will not feel shame or any other negative feeling associated with not being the perfect size for society. This time I congratulate myself for all the times I did exercise and eat healthy. I will continue to exercise and eat healthy knowing that things other the number of calories consumed or expended determines our weight. My husband and I work out together six days a week, eat basically the same thing and he is at his ideal weight and mine, while I struggle not be 300 hundred pounds.
To Oprah and everyone else, self esteem comes in all sizes. More and more, the scientific community is proving that one's natural weight may be genetically predetremined, and that the words "healthy" and thin are not necessarily synonymous.
I tell myself this every morning when I'm tempted to start another diet. I have to remind myself that diets don't work. Taking care of myself does.