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Potential Renters/Buyers...

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  5/6/2007 5:19 pm

Good afternoon everyone!

I wanted to open this discussion to get some opinions and other's point of view.

I recently moved into a beautiful condo complex with my family which we all love so far. Our neighbors seem to be friendly enough and it's a new building so it's still very quiet.

Earlier this afternoon I took our two puppies outside for their routine walk and I came across what must have been a unit owner and some potential buyers/renters in the hallway. My dogs made some fuss, but overall they are well behaved dogs. I greeted the people politely and went about my business with the puppies. When I got back up to our floor, the visitors and the owner were on their way into the elevator. I excused myself and my dogs and began to walk away when the gentleman visitor asked me in somewhat of a rude tone "Do you live here?" I answered that I did, but I was quite offended by the question being asked. I believe it was a question out of irritation with my dogs and since they were an older couple, I can see how that would be a turn off. Still, I felt it was a weird question to ask someone who clearly belongs in the building. We pay extra to have our dogs in this building, and I didn't appreciate the attitude that I received from the visitors. Obviously I can't determine fully what he meant by the question, but all signs were point to what I described.

Am I wrong for thinking that it was somewhat rude to ask me that? I may be being too sensitive on this one...

Any opinions would be appreciated!

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Elaina

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  5/7/2007 6:56 am

Try to let it go....it's hard, I know...
I know that attitude well....when I moved to S.Fl years ago with DH and then baby son, we were the first ones under 55 to live in the bldg. While mose folks were lovely, a handful had a bad attitude...like we didn't belong there.
You were friendly and polite, but all he saw was 2 dogs. It's a good thing, really, now he'll go elsewhere! :)
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