My fiance's sex drive is through the roof. He wants it all the time. I like it because I like to know that I am making him happy, but other than that I don't really have much of a desire. I enjoy sex when I get into it, but getting into it sometimes feels like a chore. Our relationship is really good otherwise, and usually I try to initiate. But, lately (probably the past month or so) he has been the sole initiator and a lot of it is I work all day and come home and am exhausted. The last thing I am thinking about is sex. Well..last night he confronted me about it and asked me if I didn't like having sex with him, and my answer was .."of course not" I love him. I think part of the problem is I have put on a few pounds and don't feel good about my body, and I am on the pill which has caused me to have a low libido. I don't know what to do...now if I initiate it he feels like I am just doing it because he has guilted me into it. I want him to feel wanted, but I just don't ever think about it and I don't really get the desire.