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Is this strange or is it me?

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  12/19/2008 4:41 pm

I am having very weird questions about my significant other....He is so strange.  He went from avoiding sex with me and being very distant during sex... NEVER wanted to do it a second time.....even though he only lasted 3 minutes or so...to a CONSTANT dialogue of sexual insinuations.  Oh it's killing me.  He wants sex ALL the time and now I feel bad AVOIDING Him.  But,  he turns me off!  The final straw hit this week when he was leaving on a business trip and told me to go drink and masturbate to him....Seriously?  Does anyone else here think that is weird?  During sex he is weird and masturbates over me and sternly tells me to go down on him.....he keeps telling me via phone that "he's so wet for me".   Please tell me if I am over reacting - but he is really grossing me out to the point of me wanting to leave...  he also sends naked pictures of himself to me...

Would you think that is weird?

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  12/20/2008 9:07 am

Him telling you to masturbate to him, him masturbating over you, sternly telling you to go down on him and him saying he's wet for you when he's on the phone, I don't find anything strange or weird about those things but I like those things.  My partner hasn't sent me any naked pics but I'd love to get an email with a pic attached of him in all his glory.  Even though I see him naked, I wouldn't mind having a some naked pics of him, pics of him pleasuring himself would be even better.    

If you're grossed out by it and it turns you off, have you talked to him about it, have you told him you don't like when he does/says those things?   If you have talked to him about it, what does he say about it?    

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