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  12/21/2008 11:58 am

Hi, I am 27 yrs old my husband is 29 we have a 1 1/2 yr old son and have been together 10 yrs married 2 1/2. My husband does not want to have sex anymore it has been a problem for like a year now. I undertand we have hectic lives and our son tires us out, hes busy I am busy and so on. Now I am not saying oh I want sex everyday but come on is at least once or twice a week too much to ask for. He always has excuses im tired im not in the mood or he says you only want it when you want it, its boring its the same routine ok I am trying to not let it get to me but I talk to him and say you know it makes me think its me hes like no I am just tired etc. I do not think he is cheating at all its like he just doesnt want to have sex. and last night kinda broke the straw we are talking about trying to have another baby and i was saying you know we are gonna be trying soon and hes like well you know i jack-off I said well can you not like he would rather jack off then have sex with me can anyone please help me because I am getting so angry at him and frustrated!!!!!!!!
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