Hot Topic: I Don't Like Sex

new here and i just found this board

i have to say i guess i am among the legions of women

who hate sex. actually i guess i really dont hate it.

just the way its done. my husband is not loving or sweet.

no romance, just feel degraded and dirty. he does this

thing where he pulls and twists my nipples. i told him

it hurts and he continues with it. i said id like loving sweet sex.

not this crap. he pleases himself rarely me and i just end

up in tears.   secondly it is i that have to ask for sex and ive

stopped. its been 5 months and he hasn't come and asked

me, which is just as well cause i hate it. and i told him to

be romantic and tender and he said listen im not getting in

touch with my feminine side.

sometimes i wonder if he is into porn but he deletes browser

history. he has looked at porn stuff in the past. i feel that is how

he comes up with his ideas of what a woman wants for sex. there

is no kissing or holding me, just sex and i hate it