Ok there is no time for correct spelling for I am not sure how long he will be gone. there is not a day that go by that my husband does not call me a moron, or stupid Bit #ch or other love words says I am lazy stupid pathetic ( so may it be ) he put me down my mother members of my family . He is the most talented nicest man to the public his clients HIS FAMILY ! he is also a drunk so his everyone in his family even his mom . I mean a drunk they drink to get drunk every day.
I want to leave but I am scared for he placed the house in his name alone and his brothers allowing his brother to place lean on our home we have been married 21 years he has maxed out my credit cards will not help me financially at all and said he will watch me fall fully if I leave ever.
I cannot afford a lawyer I do have a place to live but it is another state Can I legally leave ?
Am I over reacting ? Just too sensitive? He at one time called my name for 45 min straight when I tried to ignore him. He will wake me in the middle of the night by poking the side of my head and ask me to make him something to eat if I say no he makes my life hell by calling me lazy and so on . if I try to get sleep he blares the TV . He goes threw my things all the time refuse to allow me to have any cash I have to hide it so I have some on me. yet he will have hundred on him he has a safe and locks his money a away . leaves barley enough in bank to pay bills. then yells at me if something bounces saying I spend all his money.
Again is this abuse or am I too sensitive? how can I get money to leave ? how can I get legal help? he has not physically hit me in years but he trashes my things and the house . Please help Our kids are grown 21 and married 18 and in high school. both living at home. but will move out when and if I leave for they said he will make thier life Hell
