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Can't stand the father of your children?

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  babyme2008
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  1/21/2008 9:43 am

Hay Everyone, i have some seriouse questions i know other woman has had to go through what i am going through, i need some advice this is my secound child, i have an 8 month old and one on the way. But theres a huge problem, I can not stand there father. I need someone to help me out here and discuss this with me, Im 19. Life is strange and changing so fast. Anyone who will plz contact me.
 
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Can't stand the father of your children?

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  1/26/2008 8:55 pm

My first thoughts are why cant you stand him? If you dont want to post why here you can email me at momofjbnn@yahoo.com.
 
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Can't stand the father of your children?

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  1/29/2008 3:00 pm

I can't stand mine's father. He's a jerk. He wanted me to have an abortion, and when I refused, he said he couldn't see me anymore.
 
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  2/2/2008 2:14 pm

I can't stand my ex-husband (father of my child). He is a druggie and a deadbeat dad. He doesn't pay child support, but legally I have to allow him to see my son anyway. He takes him to places where I know that drugs are being used, chain-smokes around him, and returns him filthy and smelling like he's been hanging out at a bar. But there's nothing I can do about it.
 
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  2/4/2008 11:13 am

I don't know the details of your situation so it's difficult to be sure of my advice, but here it is. You deserve it all. Stand up for your dignity! Why are you sleeping with a man who is a "jerk?" If he wants to stop "seeing you" because you won't terminate a pregnancy then move on. A good mate takes responsibility for his family. Might I suggest you concentrate on the well-being on your children? Forget about boyfriends until you find a suitable candidate for legal marriage. Wait to have sex again until you are married to an honest man who wants to take care of his family. Good luck.  
 
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