someone who is 20 but will have legal custody for a 16year old. i lurk on the parents of teens board but i'm not her parent just her older cousin. i'm not sure where i would go to get help with her. i go on the 20ish parents board and some playgroups since i have a dd of my own but i didnt know if there was a board for someone in my situation. maybe something like families with custody of other children or family with custody of younger family members or dealing with teens. i dont know. please help