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  4/12/2007 12:15 am

hi me and my bf have been going out a year now and we strtd having sex like 1month ago and had it quite a bit now but the trouble is i cant get an orgasim from it. i get thm wen he does other stuff to me but not during sex. is thre something we are doing wrong of dou have any tips that can help us out thanks.
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Welcome to the board! Many girls do not orgasm from intercourse. I started out the same way. I could orgasm from other things, but not intercourse. After a while of having sex I started to get more sensitive, and started orgasming during sex.

Have you tried different positions? Doggy style works good for me, or girl-on-top. That one allows the girl to angle herself in a way that feels good to her. Every girl is different, and some girls' vagina tilts forward, and some tilt backwards a bit. So the angle to acheive an orgasm is different for everyone.

There's also other products that help stimulate you. There are lubes, and stuff that have different sensations. I didn't care for the warming sensation, but some girls love it. You can get that stuff at Walmart, Target or any drug store.

After only having sex for a month, I doubt you have explored many positions. I would try that before buying anything. I think it's best to learn how to please eachother without the help of products first. Another thing that really helps me is foreplay. If he goes down on me first, I orgasm really easily. Good luck, and let us know how it goes!

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