Hi! I did call the lawyer and she called back and said that 401K's and IRA's are treated the same and are exempt. We don't have a ton of money in it but anything will help at retirement which is in 15 years for my husband.
If we had some things to do all over again in life, we would have done money a little more carefully but somethings have been out of our control like a job loss, and then a lower paying new one then a lay off at the new one all in one year. It shook up things quite a bit.
Thanks for your reply!