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Slutty Bumblebee???

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  Oct-31 4:51 pm

In this morning's newspaper there was an article about Halloween costumes for kids, specifically girls' costumes and how most of those available in stores this year are "sexy". Very short shirts, low cut necklines and/or bare midriffs or other features that make them more appropriate for women, not girls as young as elementary school age. Some moms shopping with their young daughters at a costume shop were interviewed. The mother of an 11yo is the one who made the "slutty bumblebee" remark, saying that the pirate, tin man, goldilocks, bumblebee, and more were all too sexy for an 11yo; and that it was a real challenge finding a suitable costume especially when many parents don't seem to care if their teens and pre-teens dress like that.

So ladies, please take note if you see such costumes tonight and let us know! (although I suppose in Calgary the kids will be bundled up?)

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  Oct-31 5:26 pm

Our trick & treaters haven't come yet(we're thinking at least 4-perhaps up to 7?)but I know what one of the girls across the road is wearing because I made it for her (with her assistance actually).

She chose to be "A Dead Cheerleader".And what does a dead cheerleader wear?-well, it is a cheerleader costume, in black.It had a bit of dark gold on it (her school colours are black & gold & white)plus a skull & crossbones & the letters of her school(the latter 2 items were the white part).Shannon bought herself some leotards(tights?)in black with the skulls on them, so that she won't freeze going to the doors.

My granddaughter wanted me to make her a corpse bride outfit-white with black lace-unfortunately she didn't tell me so until just before her grandfather went into the hospital, so I had to back out.But Karen took her to the Goodwill store where they found a bride-type dress, but when she got it home, Anya decided a normal bride would be better.

I read Janet's posts about Hallowe'en with a hint of longing.My father loved to get into the spirit of Hallowe'en, & living on a Base with lots of children-he'd have a ball.He made a scarecrow to sit by the front door-& have a microphone in it so that it seemed to talk (or howl).And for the little kids he'd tell them no treat without a trick-I cannot tell you how many wee ones would stand on our step & sing "Jesus Loves Me" or "Happy Birthday"-the only songs they usually knew! So embarrassing when I was a teen-now I remember & laugh.

Living where we do now-so far off the road-we are lucky if we have more than 4 kids, some years we've had none.Adam has never eaten candy-but his sisters used to take him around when they went to University-they'd go to their friends' rooms or apartments-gather "the loot" & then take it for themselves, & he was happy to give it to them!

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Well, Elspeth, maybe it's true that where you live such sort of costumes are available if only because the weather is amenable to such 'skimpy' costumes! Of all the times I've answered the door here in Calgary these past 12 years I can't say I've ever seen anything in any way "suggestive" in the manner of costumes on any age group. Now it's true that we need to be more covered up as our weather is either cool to downright freezing from one year to the next. This year it's a lovely 'warm' Halloween at a predicted evening temperature of 6 C. (about 43 F.) which still is hardly the temperature to bare arms, midriffs or even legs! So there's not a lot of chance that those sort of sexy outfits will be found here, except for the much older crowd at indoor parties, I'm thinking.

I've not been out to look at what's for sale in children's costumes - but I have seen a number of little kids yesterday sporting their costumes while with their moms in the stores (assuming they just came from kindergarten or were going to kindergarten?)and they all had on the cute usual things, like a Disney princess dress, and a ladybug and a monkey costume!

I must say though, that I've seen some amazing costumes over the years...fabulous home-sewn ones of adorable puppies, cats, bugs, all sorts of animals, superheroes, witches (and some really inventively different ones at that) and princesses, and some scary monsters, draculas and such, and all would you believe with warm layers of clothing on underneath? I have not ever noticed any sexy costumes...nope. I am even very surprised that such costumes are sold in young children's sizes. I don't think we have that kind of thing here, except in the adult sizes of costumes.

Shirley

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