Hello! I have a dilemma, and was wondering what you girls would do. We are having our third child, a daughter, in April. We have a 3 1/2 year old named Jackson, and a 1 year old named Ella. I have always, always loved the name Grace. I previously couldn't use it for 2 reasons, (1) My best friend (who lives 3 hours from here) used it for her 3 year old, (2) When I was pregnant with Ella, my cousin's fiancee was pregnant, and told us she was naming the baby Grace before we had names picked out, and our girls were due a week apart. However, now I really want to name this baby Grace. This will be our last child, and the name just feels right. I have talked to my best friend, and she has no problem with us using the name, and actually said she would be honored. However, I don't know how to address this with my cousin's fiancee. We hardly know each other, only see each other maybe twice a year, but we are both very active on Facebook, as my Ella and her Gracie are the same age. So how do I mention that I want to name this baby Grace without offending her? Grace has been at the top of my list since high school, and this is my last chance to use it! Any advice is welcome! Thank you so much!