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I suppose by now, everyone has heard at least once that, contrary to the grotesque urban legends promulgated by fundamentalist websites, Hallowe'en is a Christian holiday, the eve of All Saints Day, a Principal Feast. As such it ranks among holy days after only Easter, Christmas, and Pentecost. While Hallowe'en's date may be influenced by a pre-Christian pagan commemoration, that theory is based on fragmentary evidence pieced together by social anthropologists, and may or may not be true. In contrast, the Christian historicity of Hallowe'en is indisputable.

All Saints honours the great cloud of witnesses with whom we have communion through Christ our Lord. In New Testament writings, the word "saint" is used to refer to all believers who have turned to Christ: a person doesn't have to have their name formally enrolled on a calendar of Saints to be a Witness whom we can commemorate at All Saints. We've recently lost two great ministers and encouragers from our church congregation, so they are particularly in my mind. As always, I remember Saint Anne the mother of Our Lady, Saint Elisaveth of Thuringia, Saint Faith, Saint Arianne, and the holy Matriarchs Ruth and Rachel: the Saints whose names are borne by my children. And my own patroness Saint Martha, who in Canada is honoured as the patron saint of Engineers.

Just what we do to honour the saints changes from year to year. I've never been able to convince the girls to choose Saints for their Hallowe'en costumes, though Martha and the Dragon would make a lovely pair of costumes, I think. But Rachel wants a belly-dance costume (sigh). The old sewing machine has to get going on that, I suppose: as though I didn't have enough projects on the go.

Actually, the custom of dressing up properly belongs to Michaelmas (the feast of Michael and All Angels, which celebrates the casting down of the Beast from heaven, as told in the Book of Revelation). But as Anne quite rightly pointed out recently, we're the only family she knows who regularly celebrates Michaelmas, so it's not quite the same thing as dressing up at Hallowe'en when all your friends are doing it too.

A couple of crafts we've done in past years are making votive candles, and making paper-craft icons. I got books with stories of the Saints, or told the stories from memory, or read them from the Bible (depending on which Saints and which stories). Then we glued tissue-paper to the outside of large glass votive cups in the shape of symbols or pictures from the stories. With a candle in them, they illustrated the metaphore that "Saints are people whom the Light shines through." This year, the girls are a little more sophisticated in their artistic inclinations. But, they've been dabbling in faux-stained-glass artwork. I have some nice durable and nearly-transparent baking parchment. I've suggested the girls try drawing stained-glass outlines with a heavy black marker, and then colouring them in with transparent markers. If they don't make them too big, we can tape them up on either side of the dining-room windows and they will add a nice coloured light to the room without making it too dim.

Whether we get our visit in to the heritage graveyard, to take flowers to some of the long-neglected graves, will of course depend on ballet-school schedules and the weather. Between one and the other we haven't been that lucky in past years.

Anybody else have any plans for the upcoming holidays of Michaelmas and/or Hallowe'en?

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  9/19/2006 7:05 am

Wow thank you for so much interesting information.  I can't wait to talk about this with my DH.  He is one that doesn't think we should celebrate Hallowe'en.  I can understand his not wanting to expose our child to the sometimes gruesome aspect that some take it to - in younger days I went to some Haunted Houses where it was just too much in my opinion, and such a focus on the "hollywood movie" type of Hallowe'en idea - but aside from that aspect of it, I think there is nothing wrong with the celebration and dressing in costumes and trick or treating through the neighborhood etc.  I've traditionally also celebrated Reformation, our church has a special service to commemorate that occasion, and also All Saints Day.

This year is my son's first Halloween, although he won't remember it, I still plan to dress him up and attend a Halloween event in our community with a friend of mine and her baby.  Gordon will be dressed as Pooh's Hunny Pot:

Definitely not associated with any of the Saints, but he's going to be adorable none the less LOL.

Thanks again for the great information about this holiday, I feel more educated about it and can approach DH with some interesting information!

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Oh, yes! Reformation Day!

Or Reformation Sunday, as it's usually kept now. That was one of the culture-shifts I encountered when I started attending a Lutheran church. It's a great celebration: all the Sunday School classes make crafts with Luther's Rose on them, and we sing something like "Faith of our Fathers" for the Hymn of the Day. I think it's a great festival. But, it does tend to de-emphasize the celebration of All Saints, even though we still keep it on the following Sunday. In the Anglican parishes I've belonged to, All Saints was always quite a serious event, and in our Lutheran church all it gets is a passing mention.

Which, admittedly, is still more than Michaelmas gets! Thank goodness for the old "domestic church".

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Oh my, how adorable!!!
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"Anybody else have any plans for the upcoming holidays of Michaelmas and/or Hallowe'en?"

Yep, we're going trick-or-treating.

I don't think there really are true "holy-days" on our calendar, unless of course you are a Jewish Christian and celebrate the God-ordained holidays as described in the Bible (or another rare Christian who does this). All other holidays are man-made.

I find it extremely interesting that some Christians find Halloween to be a Christian "Holy day" (any evidence to show that it predates the pagan holiday would be appreciated), or celebrate any man made holiday (Christmas, Easter) as some sort of high ranking holy day. Why are these days ranked in such high importance, but God's ordained holidays have fallen by the wayside, such as the Passover Feast?

Of even more interest to me is the drastic differences when comparing God's holidays to our man made ones. God's holidays all focused on one thing--Himself. Man made holidays place the focus on unworthy things--saints, who are still sinners. Presents. Food. I wonder, if Jesus were walking on earth with us today, would he be busy placing on a pedastal yet another "saint" and spending a whole day "honoring" a dead person? Would he be spending countless hours shopping for presents to give to people who really don't need anything anyways?

Christmas and Easter are man made holidays which, if you try really hard, can be days to focus on God. But shouldn't every day be a day for which to praise God, to meditate on His Word? Is one day really "holier" than another?

Things to ponder--myself included.

Kathy

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