discussion title:
Medical Benefits - loose circ?
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8307.5 in response to 8307.4
<<I do hope so, Traci. You say your youngest son's adhesions were 'gently' pulled away. Was that incrementally - a little at a time? Did it hurt him or give him some momentary discomfort?>>
It was in one doctor's office visit. It was a process. Alex was laying down on the table. The doctor gently, a little bit at a time, pulled the skin away from the glans. It was like he was trying to get it to release on it's own but coaxing it to release at the same time. The whole process probably took about 5 minutes. Alex was squirming and fussing a lot and let out a few cries but not a full blown all out crying the entire time. So yes, the doctor did not just rip it away in one fell swoop but it was done at one visit. I believe the only reason the doctor did it in the first place is because so much skin had readhered that really only his urethral opening was poking out at the end. For a circ'd boy, that's not the way it's supposed to be. I believe after that a very little bit adhered back again back around the ridge but I'm not worrying about that. I figure it will naturally release on it's own as he gets to an age where he has more erections and is naturally playing with it more. I will let him do it on his own.
I also wanted to address your question in your other post in this thread. You asked about why some doctors feel compelled to do the loose circ. I have a theory on that. Here in the US, I feel we are in a transition period. We are transitioning out of the fad of circumcision but the transition will take time. In this time of transition, I think there are probably many doctors who deep down really know that circumcision is wrong and that it should not be done. But there are still so many parents who are requesting it (especially here in the Midwest where I live) that it is still viewed in general as an acceptable procedure. So maybe for these doctors who know it's wrong but are still catering to parental request, a loose circ is the doctors way of finding a middle ground. A middle ground between what they think is right (intact) and what the parents are requesting (circ). There are still so many parents out there that don't even know what an infant circ is "supposed" to look like that they wouldn't even question a loose circ.
In regards to this theory, I think of my own two boys. They were both circ'd by our family practicioner. Adam's looks more like what would be considered a "normal" circ. Alex's looks like what would be a loose circ. The only difference in the procedures was a 2 year 2 month separation. Perhaps over those two years, our doctor moved more to a loose circ (I don't know his reasons, I've never asked). The other factor is that my two boys are complete opposite in almost every way. They have very different body types. Maybe that has something to do with how the circ looks on them as well. IDK.
Only time will tell how they will each grow into their circ, and as the parent I may never know the whole story. As soon as they are old enough to toilet on their own and bathe on their own, I have no intentions of seeing them naked on a regular basis (I already see too much of their butt's as it is ;) ) If it's a subject they want to broach with me, fine. I have no intention of broaching the subject with them.