Hi from another heart grandmother. My grandson Nick, also my first, has a heart defect. He will be 13 on September 2. Nick's defect was not found until he was 4 1/2 years old and he had surgery in 2001, very soon after it was found. I know what you are going through. Not only do you have to worry about your grandbaby, you also have to worry about your daughter. It is worry that is doubled.
I knew nothing about heart defects when Nick's was found. I also didn't know what all the doctors can do for these kids and how amazing the kids are. Last night I was at the ball park and I saw one of my friend's grandbabies. This little boy is almost one and he was born with TGA too. If you didn't know them, you would not have realized this little boy had a heart defect. If you saw my grandson, you'd also never guess he had a heart defect. My grandson does have to take medicine because he has a leaky mitral valve but other than that, he's doing very well.
While it dampens the joy of your daughter's pregnancy, it is actually good that they caught this and are prepared for your grandbaby's arrival. The baby will be able to get off to the best possible start. My grandson's defect was not detected before he was born, or even right afterwards, and his heart was enlarged from overworking. We were lucky we did not lose him.
I'm sorry you found a reason to have to visit this board but I am glad that we can be of help to you. Please feel free to post with any questions you have and also, feel free to email me. cherir1@peoplepc.com
Good luck to you and God bless.
Cheri, grandmother of Nicholas, partial canal defect, OH at Texas Children's Hospital in Houston