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At what point do you ask...
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3355.2 in response to 3355.1
Well imo IEP's are extremely important to have. Because it's a legal document that must be followed.
You have legal rights that say you can request one (do so in writing) and the school has to do it. Make sure they cover it all.... academic, speech, Occupational therapy. It's not unusual for a child with ADHD to sometimes have problems in the other areas. I remember when my son had his first IEP when he was in 2nd grade. I believed he had a learning disability and was shocked when he qualified for Speech. He had articulation problems that I never picked up on. Unfortunantly they did not correctly "find" my child at that time so it took many years of him struggling to finally get it right for him.
Another important thing to know is sometimes the other tag alongs that can come with ADHD might not show up yet, such as Learning Disabilities ect. Those also can tag along with the Gifted too, and because the child is gifted, he has been able to mask over some of these problems in the early years until the work gets harder.
Remember that in order to prove he needs special education and related services, the disability has to affect his education and this cannot be just for good grades or advancing from year to year. They have to look at the emotional and social picture for him too and take that into consideration.
If he doesn't qualify for an IEP after they do the appropriate testing, then you can always get a 504, which basically allows him to have classroom accomodations that will still help him in learning and protect him from discrimination.
I know he has a great teacher now who sounds wonderful, but unfortunantly someday you could get the bad apple that can make life really hard for your child, so I would definetly PUSH for at least the 504.
I hope I helped
Lainie