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Vit. K shot and eye ointment? Thoughts?

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Has anyone decided NOT to have these procedures done?

 

Thoughts?

 

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Hi sevenweeones,

I live in NY, where these procedures are "state mandated."  Many hospitals here are not even offering informed consent. I've heard of parents who have refused them and the hospital called social services!

With my last baby, 10 years ago, I had a home birth and my CNM's offered these as regular choices that were mine to make. I opted for the vitamin K injection due to concerns about clotting - Factor XI deficiency runs in the family, but I declined the eye ointment.

Have you discussed this with your OB/MW?

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Hi there,

Is there a reason why you wouldn't want it done?

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Yes---

 

If you Google "Are antibiotic eyedrops really necessary for a newborn?"

 

And ,"Is the Vitamin K shot really necessary for a newborn?", there are many links with lots of information (including medical) as to the cons of why NOT to get them.

 

Most people in this country just "do what their doctor says" without researching, and becuse we have been taught from a young age that "if the doctor said so, it must be true".

 

But I do not subscribe to that way of thinking, and therefore choose to research everything that has to do with my babies/children.

 

I just think that parents should be more informed and educated on ALL the options and pros and cons of these "routine" procedures that we give to our babies rather than just do it because it's the norm or the doctor said so.

 

 

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Hey there
I'm usually a lurker around here, but I couldn't resist this one...
Actually, what your doctor says IS, in most cases, true. Stuff on the internet (Dr. Google, anybody?) is 95% crap because it's all opinion and no real research. People these days seem to think it's an act of heroism (or maybe rebellion?) to do the opposite of whatever the bad bad doctors say they should do. Your doctor spent years and years and YEARS studying ways of giving you and your baby a better, healthier life. No, it's not always about politics or anti-medical activism a la Jenny McCarthy. No, it's not always about money or doctor's convenience. And no, doctors are trying to help you, not force meaningless procedures on you against your will.
Trust me, if your hospital didn't MAKE you do this, and your child, God forbid, ended up with something awful because of this, you would not blame yourself; you would be the first in line to sue the hospital for malpractice. And you know what's extremely sad? You'd probably win.
Please, nobody wants a whole generation of sick children whose parents refused perfectly safe procedures just because they wanted to break out of the system and go "natural". Try to resist the temptation of googling every single little detail of medical stuff that only doctors should know and that other people will never understand because we do not have enough background. It's very difficult to claim you know everything about something someone's spent 20+ years studying just because you read one or two articles on the Internet. It's not our job to research what our doctors say, because we'd never, in a million years, have the same amount of knowledge and experience IN THEIR OWN FIELD. How would you feel if someone started questioning your credibility and output in your own job when they'd never practiced it a single day in their lives?
I hope you think more clearly for the sake of your baby before anything else, because this is all that matters, and stop antagonizing medical professionals just because some s*** on TV said it was OK.
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