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Would you stay with your spouse if th...
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2791.5 in response to 2791.1
I think the question that comes to my mind when I answer this one is
Would your spouse stay with you if you cheated on them?
I have been married 7 years now and there is a tale that there is a 7 year itch.
The tale being at seven years together, this is the time that you or spouse may wander.
I have always told my DH if you ever feel the need to please respect me enough to inform me of his wants and needs. I was asked to do the same.
I am very blessed to have found a man that will listen, and not condem me for what I ask.
I have also tried my hardest to fulfill his wants and needs. But he never gets upset if I just can't give in to all his wants.
All in all I guess what I'm saying is communication between both partners is what's working for us. But we really need to have an open mind to eachother. Or doubts I'm sure could set in. When there is doubt it leads to mistrust. Keep the doubts out of your marriage as best as you can.
Jaymi
