I just wrote a similar e-mail, but I stay at home with my little one. I'm sorry about what's going on with you. It is frustrating! Men don't SEE SO MUCH and just don't "get" the rest of it. I've told my hubby that I want to have a lobotomy or to become a man. The decrease in IQ, ignorance is bliss, right? I may try this so maybe it will work for you? I was thinking about giving two nights/week to my hubby to bathe our daughter, pajamas, and get her to bed. Just two nights, maybe they will appreciate us more, help more, or just lighten the load for us for one millisecond. If you find a solution, please pass it along. I'll try anything! KMK