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New here..need help with personal issue.
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3085.2 in response to 3085.1
I truly have NO clue what to tell you bc DH gives me O EVERY time! thankfully.
but i remember my ex fiance and how back in the day he and i were together i didnt have an O ONCE in 2 and 1/2 years. I delt with it by doing it myself! im embarrassed to say! but hey- alot of women do that!
Then I was without any sex life until I met DH... and I think i can honestly attribute my 'ability' to climax to my own personal practice. (masterbation) i know this isnt the sex board but hey! its a marraige board so no one's really in the dark about this....
it helped me discover my needs, what works, and "how" to get there. so when DH and I met, it took about 3 times and then I was just going nuts! and so was he! he said he'd never been with a woman who couldnt climax during intercourse.
dont feel bad... youre not alone. 80% of women havent been able to climax with their partner! no joke!
When I'm with DH i fantasize alot, and personally the climax is all mind over matter to me... i literally think myself into climaxing and i just do.
but your DH has to help too and if he isnt willing to listen to you and perform things you need- then he's being selfish and childish.
he should rub your back softly and give you tingles, massage your head, cuddle you from behind, and be romantic! not say "hey babe. ive got a boner... lets go" and tear your clothes off.
good luck!
