Although I love oral and have incredible orgasms from it, I would almost always pick intercourse. It probably has to do with the fact that I didn't really start receiving and enjoying oral until the last few years. Intercourse has been the center of my sex life for years now. I feel like we're sharing something together when we have intercourse.
I know what you mean. I always feel so selfish just enjoying oral, and more like we are sharing something with him when it's intercourse. But, I sure don't turn down all the oral I can get! LOL And, since he's sort of new to me, he's learning what I want, how I want it, how to get to the big O, and he's learning that if I go first, he can go as fast or slow as he wants and in the end, when he's done, I'm satisified and ready to sleep! LOL
I'd most definitely choose oral. I love intercourse too, because it feels like I'm doing something more for him, I feel. I usually can't have an orgasm from intercourse so he'll give me oral and then we'll have intercourse. It's pretty rare that he wants oral, but when he does, I don't ever turn him down.
I would pick intercourse. I orgasm harder on oral, but miss out on the physical connection. My husband would pick oral. For some reason that makes me feel very sad. I think my period is due soon.
