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any moms relate? new here

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  firefliesflyin
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  Nov-6 10:48 am

Hi, i'm a stay at home mom of a little boy and things are wonderful right now with family life for the most part. It's just that since i've been home with my little guy, i guess i have had a little bit of time to start thinking about things in the past and i've been thinking about something again that bothers me a lot. in college i made a dumb mistake and ended up in bed with a guy after drinking a lot and woke up not remembering what happened that night. I woke up in a shirt and underwear and was a virgin when this happened. I didn't think anything really happened at the time so i up and left but now i wonder. Then i contacted the guy's ex who said he was forceful in bed with her at times. The fact that i found out how he was with his ex and that i was a virgin when this happened both bother me. If anyone out there knows anyone that has been through this with the same issues that bother me about it could you respond? I just want to know that it really isn't a big deal and other people have moved on completely and it hasn't affected them. Then i will know that i can move on too.
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  Nov-11 10:37 am

Hello Firefliesflyin! Welcome to the board!

I'm sorry to hear that you lost your virginity without experiencing the actual event! But, I'm very glad to hear that you have moved past enough to enjoy your husband and your new baby - Congratulations!!

I, too, did some stupid things when I was younger. They're behind me now and I can just pack them away with my other memories - I just try not to bring them out. I hope you can forgive this guy and maybe yourself - you, your husband and your little boy deserve that!

Sending hugs,


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