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Never knew how hard it would be

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  Oct-8 11:32 am

Hi, I am new here. Unfortunately I need to come here. I feel for all you who have lost babies. It is really hard. I had no idea the emotions and physical pain that happens.

I found out on Friday that I lost my baby. Well I haven't lost it yet but there was no heartbeat or movement. I am waiting for my body to do its job right now. Unfortunately nothing is happening. Tomorrow I go to my doctor to see what I need to do as far as that goes.

This is the first time I have experienced a Miscarriage. I have 3 kids that I love but it is still hard to lose a baby when you become so attached to it! I was 9 weeks 3 days along. The baby only measured 7 weeks 3 days.

Anyway I am here. It stinks.

Cynthia
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  Oct-8 2:51 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. I found out something was wrong last friday and lost the baby over the weekend, so I feel for you.

I was just telling my husband last night that I never even considered what this felt like until it happened to us :(. It is very hard, no matter how far along you were.

I hope that you are able to have your next baby without a hitch... and just make sure you love and cherish your 3 children everyday!

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I found out myself this hardship three weeks ago.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  Give yourself time to heal.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my son October 1st.I was 23 weeks pregnant and went into labor and by the time i got to the hospital i was already 7 cm.i had him and he lived for 2 1/2 hours. This is truely the hardest thing i have ever went through! But i have alot of support from my babys father and my family.I couldnt get through it without them!
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