Feb. Leap Year Luv Bugs '04

Anyone got a moan after out 'long' weekend...(extended by one hour)?????

shell

I will moan. I have been having severe cramps today and all night last night. I finally fell asleep around 4 and the alarm went off at 5:30. I had them yesterday but they got worse around bedtime. They were off and on all day until about 2:00 and they got worse. I have taken a pain pill and it isn't touching the pain. I don't want to take 2 because I am home with Jackson and Mark is working. Hopefully it will ease off soon. I don't remember cramping this bad after my last 2 d&c's.

I have a pile of laundry that just will not wash and fold itself. I don't feel like washing but I have to b/c Jackson has no clean jeans for the rest of the week. It is suppose to be cold toward the end of the week and he needs them.

I know this sounds selfish but my friend that was 6 weeks ahead of my in her pregnancy sent me a text message updating me of her appointment. She tells me everything is perfect and she goes the week of Thanksgiving for the big ultrasound. While I am very happy that everything is fine, I didn't need the update today. It seems to me like she is rubbing it in. I know I shouldn't take it that way but why would she send that to me today. I guess she wouldn't understand b/c she has never been in my shoes. I didn't reply back to her. Maybe she will get the hint.

You have every right to moan.  I hope that your cramping will subside soon. Maybe Jackson will go to bed early and you can take another pain pill and go to sleep? Perhaps you should stay home tomorrow?

I would bet that your friend is not trying to rub it in, but is just not sensitive to your situation, which is too bad. She should try to put herself in your place.  I hope she gets the hint!

shell

I took another pain pill about an hour before Jackson's bedtime. It has helped. The cramps are not as bad. I am not sleepy though.

I know my friend isn't trying to rub it in but she does not realize how sensitive I am right now. She thinks of herself first and everyone else later. She tried called about an hour after she text me and I did not answer. I just did not feel like talking to anyone.

I wonder how she would react if you told her that you were really hurting emotionally right now and just don't feel like talking about it? Is she the type to get upset by that or the kind to realize her own insensitivity?

shell