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Move in with pregnant girlfriend?

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  Oct-22 9:07 pm

I was living with my girlfriend for five years to the day when we broke up (She moved out).  A couple months later we started seeing each other from time to time and then she got pregnant.  She is three months pregnant now and we are trying to get back together.  I was planning on moving in, in a couple months and she thinks I should move in immediately and thinks I am a horrible person for wanting to wait a little while.  I don't see the sense of urgency.  I understand her point of view but want to hold off.  She recommended asking someone if I was doing the wrong thing by wanting to wait.  I am looking for feedback on my situation.  Please help.
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  Oct-22 11:04 pm

I really don't feel that this is the appropriate place for this question. This board deals with depression and mental illness during pregnancy.

You may have more luck with a local clergy member, therapist, or another more appropriate forum.

You could post this question to answers.yahoo.com, girlsaskguys.com, or askmehelpdesk.com. You could even write Dear Abby. (http://www.www.uexpress.com/dearabby/)

I wish you the best of luck.

Warmest,
Lauren

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  Oct-23 1:47 pm

Hi-

I agree that this is not the best place to get answers to your question.  You might want to check out some of these other boards on iVillage:

Unplanned Pregnancy:  http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-pppgunplan?ice=iv:mb:msg:rk

Living Together: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rllivingtoge?ice=iv:mb:msg:rk

I think those boards would be more apropriate for your situation.  I hope you and your girlfriend can figure things out.  Good luck.

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