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  Jul-11 4:24 pm

Okay ladies I seriously need your help on this one...

So the as before mentioned FOB sent me a text message the other day saying that my best friend of 13 years contacted him on myspace. I basically told him that he is a grown man and by him coming to me expecting me to fix it is immature. If his problem is with her then he needs to take it up with her and leave me out of the drama.

I was at work (I work nights) and when my shift was over I got a voice message from FOB saying that he needed to talk to me ASAP, he even left 2 messages for me on my facebook account. I called he said he would call me back. He later sent me a text message stating that I couldn't keep his name out of my mouth.... I say "dude what  are you talking about, and all this dramatic stuff is getting on my nerves so if were going to be adults then you need to talk like one" He goes on to say I'll give you something to talk about and then the conversation abrtptly ends WTH???? That was 3 days ago and I still havent heard from him.... so this is my problem.

I'm aggrivated because I feel like the drama has absolutely nothing to do with me. I'm pissed at him because he's immature. I'm pissed at her because she is causing un-needed drama, adding insult to injury she didn't even warn me about their "conversation" so I'm totally blind as to what they talked about. I'm just tired of the drama all I want to do is just grow this baby, is that asking too much? I'm totally stumped, what should I do????? Sorry for the length 

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  Jul-13 10:32 am

Ignore them.  First of all if she was your BFF, she wouldnt be doing this.  Secondly, you are right.  You should be able to be pregnant and not have to deal with this.  So ignore them.  Tell them to go to wherever and to leave you here so you can do what you have to do to make sure that your baby is healthy.  Turn up your nose and laugh because you have way more important things to deal with then them.  Hope everything gets better!
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  Jul-13 2:29 pm

thank you so much, I havent spoken with either of them since it happened. It's just so odd when you feel like you would at least have your girl to talk to, so now I kinda feel alone.
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