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I wasnt prepared for my own feelings

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My boyfriend and I miscarried in July and our relationship has not been the same since. I became pregnant again and am 7 weeks. We were really excited. We had a falling out and I broke up with him a week ago. I knew it would be best for me and my child, but now I feel so alone. I feel like I tried so hard to get pregnant again, and now I dont have any support. I hangout with my girlfriends constantly but its not the same. I dont know if I made a big mistake or not. I feel really lonely and I miss him. But I love being alone too. It seems like every time I have gotten pregnant I find him to be so irritating.
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Are you in Idaho? 

I'm 33 weeks now and I'm just now accepted that my DH/FOB is not in the picture.  Our hormones do crazy things to us esp while we are pregnant.  I hope the FOB hasn't totally dropped out of the picture?  We had a miscarriage last summer and us too had some serious marital issues after that.  I didn't expect to get pregnant so quickly either.  It only took me two semi normal cycles.  Are either of you still mourning your loss?  I know that can affect alot of things also.  Find things to enjoy in your pregnancy, and try to focus on those!!!  You'll have a sweet baby here before you know it.

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I am in the exact same situation. Some days i feel like I'm going to lose my mind and then others i think everything is going to be ok. I didn't know being pregnant could be this hard. My ex boyfriend and i miscarried in July as well, then we took fertility drugs to get pregnant this time around. I am now 18 weeks we broke up two weeks ago and i am an emotional wreck. I miss him too but enjoy my space as well. He thinks he can say and do as he pleases and it shouldn't have any effects on me.I always wanted a family. I never wanted to give birth and raise a child by myself. I wish he was more understanding and supportive but he has became very selfish. I could really use a friend to talk to.

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