Pregnant and Single

I've been seeing progress with myself--and ultimately, that really is best.  I am getting stronger on my own--it is encouraging to see.  When I have my low moments reading posts of others throughout this sight-- in a way helps my mind take the wisdom and see better.   Reading a walks--even find my days filled with friends--so it is great to see-- I am finding myself and learning so much about what I want to change within me. 

 The baby kicks so much, so I know it is healthy.  Deep down I still don't know what the right choice of what I should choose to do.  Still praying about it-but I know in time--I'll have a peace about it.  This baby will be loved either way. 

But the question came to my mind today and I was just wondering others personal views : )

What kind of a man leaves a relationship-- when the girl is holding his child?  I was interested in your views. 

I'm glad you're feeling better about things :)

I think that there are so many shades of gray in your question... There's certainly something to be said for a man that may no longer want to be involved with the woman for whatever reason (besides her pregnancy) but is still consistently active and involved in the pregnancy. However... I'm pretty sure that doesn't happen very often. I realized as soon as I found out I was pregnant that SD was a bad guy so I left him and didn't really give him a chance to be around. A lot of people feel I handled things wrong but he never exactly made an effort, you know?

I guess what I'm saying is that it's important for the relationship to be working, and if it's not (even for the guy), it's not. Buuuut... there's still a child involved, so the true measure of if he's a good guy or not is if he is able to put the child and his/her needs before his own.

I haven't really heard of many who can!