ok. im am 19 and married to a man in the military. we have been together off and on this last past year. the last time i left him was about june. i found out a couple months ago that he got another girl pregnant and they were together for a while, she is due in jan. i found out in oct that i am also pregnant. i am 10 weks now. now my husband has this change of heart and want us to be together and work things out. i just want some advice on what someone else would do in this situation. i really love my husband but i know this other female and i just dont know if i could deal with this crazy situation especially when he is going back overseas in feb.