Hi There,
My FOB left me a few weeks ago because he was terrified and wanted nothing to do with us. Now he is in another "relationship" and posted it on FB. He has turned into someone I don't know so I've had to walk away.
I wish I had a crystal magic ball so I could predict the future. All I can say, is give him his space, it's alot to deal with and he's probably terrified (like we aren't) - - but men aren't nurturing by nature and having a child before they are ready scares the heck out of them so they act out in stupid ways (By drinking, partying, being distant, etc).
Please just pray for God to show you the way and keep you and your baby strong during this time. I know how lonely and scared you are, we are all or have been at one point on this board. No one expects to be a Single Mother and it certainly isn't our dream, but you can DO IT!! You are a strong, wonderful and loving being and soon enough, you will become a strong and loving mother.
Just keep the faith and remember, EVERYTHING turns out exactly the way it's supposed to.
I wish I had more words of wisdom, I am single & pregnant and was devastated by FOB's hot/cold behavior BUT we are STRONG. Remember that.
best of luck to you. I hope he comes around and becomes the father your child deserves and the man you deserve. Remember that.
