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  Nov-3 1:41 pm

I have a question for anyone to answer or at least give me some type of insight. How can a man tell you that he loves you yet tell you to either get an abortion or leave. It baffles me. It tears me apart too.

This is a picture of the beautiful baby he wants me to get rid of.


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  Nov-5 10:54 am

I don't know, I had the same thing happen last night.  He wants to be with me but only if I choose not to have the baby.   While I have not made up my mind what I want to do yet I have decided that I don't need his ultimatums.  I love him a lot but no man will ever determine my life for me.  I don't know what to believe, I think he is scared & worried (this pregnancy was unplanned and not well timed for a number of reasons) which I understand, but I have lost my faith in him he is not the man I thought he was.  I'm with you, I'm feeling so overwhelmed and I don't think it has even hit me yet.  I never thought this would happen to me.
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