Pregnant and Single

Hi All,

I'm happy to report that my amnio results came back NORMAL! And they confirmed it was a girl!

God, I'm so relieved and feel so blessed. At 43 years old and being my first child, this is such a miracle.

I cried tears of joys when I got off the phone and then I was melancholy because I wanted to call the FOB so bad and have him share in this joy we created together. But I had to remind myself he is not the man I cared for, that I have no idea who he is anymore bc he has turned into a deadbeat who would abandon his flesh & blood and start a new relationship when I'm 4 months pregnant.

All I can keep doing is praying when those feelings of loneliness and sadness come over me and when I miss him. And I will let God deal with him and his behavior. I have to focus on me and this little beautiful girl that I can't wait to meet.

Best,
L

I am in the same situation. I'm 5 months pregnant and my fiance recently walked out on me to "experience life". It is a struggle everyday. Someone that you thought would share in the joys along with you of every little piece of news, ultrasounds, feeling the baby kicks...is gone. I make myself physically sick from crying that i am in this alone. But i remind myself that i have a baby girl inside of me that i never thought i would have...at 33 the doctors told me i couldn't conceive. So regardless of how she came into being, i know she has a purpose in this world and that her mama will love her so much. So although i picked a man of obvious poor character that left us, I have a blessing in my life that i wouldn't take back for anything in the world. Focus on the life inside of you and how wonderful it will be to look in her eyes and hold her against you. I can't wait to meet my baby girl. The ache of missing him will hurt, but i know that will subside in time. Surround yourself with the people who love you..it will help you stay positive and certainly help you to heal emotionally. Take care and keep me posted. And remember that there are others of us who know and understand what you're going through.